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Style Basics: Learn to Tie a Bow Tie
Whether you’re stepping into a black-tie event or simply dressing to impress, knowing how to tie one makes all the difference. At Suit Lab, we think your knot should match your polish. Let’s walk through how to do it with confidence.
Step 1: Choose the Right Length
Begin with the tie resting flat around your neck so it sits comfortably. The side on your non-dominant hand (left side for most) should hang slightly longer than the other. This gives you good length to work with when forming the knot.
Step 2: Cross and Loop
Take the longer end and cross it over the shorter end. Then bring that longer end underneath and through the neck loop. This forms the foundational knot. At this stage your two ends should be roughly the same length — that’s your measure for balance.
Step 3: Form the First Loop
Fold the end that remains on your dominant side (right hand side if you’re right-handed) to create a loop and rest it against your collar. Little thumb or finger behind it helps you guide the loop. You’re starting to shape the bow.
Step 4: Bring the Other End Through
Take the other end and bring it in front, over the loop you just created. You’re now building the opposite side of the bow. This stage begins to define the shape and symmetry of your tie.
Step 5: Find the Hole & Insert the Fold
With both ends in place, you’ll notice a small opening (a “hole”) behind the front of the knot assembly. Take the remaining folded end from Step 4 and thread it through that hole. This is where the bow tie really comes together.
Step 6: Tighten and Adjust
Once the folded end is through the hole, you’ll see the classic bow shape. Use your fingers to adjust: pull on the loops to tighten, then adjust the ends and centres so everything looks even and sits properly. A few tweaks here make the difference between “pre-tied” and “sharp custom knot.”
Step 7: Final Touches
Fold down your collar, bring the tie out from underneath the collar, and give it a final adjustment in front of the mirror. Slight asymmetry is okay—it signals that you tied it yourself. This is the hallmark of genuine style.
A self-tied bow tie communicates craftsmanship and attention to detail. While pre-tied or clip-ons are convenient, they often look perfect — and thus artificial. A hand-tied knot has subtle variation and presence, especially under a sharp tuxedo or evening jacket.
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