Let’s get you suited up!
Got a wedding coming up? Nice. Now let’s make sure you show up looking sharp — but not like you’re trying to steal the couple’s thunder. Weddings are all about good vibes, good outfits, and celebrating people you care about. Consider this your no-stress guide to dressing right.
1. First Things First: Don’t Overthink It
Before you get lost in colours, fabrics and dress codes, here are a few easy rules to keep in your back pocket:
- Don’t outshine the bride and groom. It’s their moment, not your runway.
- Avoid super loud outfits. You want to be noticed for looking good, not for blinding everyone in the room.
- Stick to the basics. A clean suit, proper shirt, tie, and real dress shoes will do wonders.
- Follow the dress code. If the invite says something specific, go with it, it saves you guessing later.
- Give yourself time. If you need tailoring, don’t leave it to the night before. (Trust us.)
2. Think About When & Where A few quick checks help you nail the vibe:
- Day vs night: Day weddings are usually a little more relaxed. Nights lean more formal.
- Summer vs winter: Hot weather? Lighter fabrics, lighter colours. Cooler weather? Richer colours and slightly heavier suits.
- Beach, garden, ballroom? Every venue has a personality. A vineyard wedding hits different to a CBD hotel wedding.
- Religious venues: Some spaces have expectations (covered shoulders, etc.). If unsure, just ask.
3. Decoding Dress Codes
Casual / Relaxed
Still neat, still stylish — but chill.
- A blazer or sports jacket with chinos works great.
- Long-sleeve shirt, loafers or dress shoes.
- Jeans and sneakers? Save them for Sunday brunch.
Smart Casual
A little more polished.
- A structured jacket, tailored trousers, and an open-neck shirt.
- Tie optional depending on the vibe.
Cocktail / Semi-Formal
This is classic wedding guest territory.
- A navy or charcoal suit, crisp shirt, proper tie.
- Black or dark brown leather dress shoes.
- A pocket square gives you bonus points.
Black Tie
Formal mode activated.
- Tuxedo (black or midnight blue), white dress shirt, black bow tie.
- Shiny leather shoes.
- No shortcuts here — follow the code.
4. Build the Outfit Like a Pro
Here’s the cheat sheet:
- Suit: Navy or charcoal for most weddings. Lighter colours for daytime/outdoor settings.
- Shirt: White is the safest; light blue works too.
- Tie: Keep it tasteful and not too loud — you’re a guest, not best man (unless you are).
- Shoes: Leather dress shoes only. Black for formal; brown for daytime.
- Accessories: Pocket square = effortless style. Lapel flower? Go small. Don’t accidentally look like part of the bridal party. Socks: have fun, but don’t go full cartoon mode.
5. A Few “Please Don’ts”
- Don’t wear white. That’s bride territory.
- Don’t go overboard with crazy colours or oversized florals.
- Don’t wear sneakers, thongs or anything you'd wear to Bunnings.
- Don’t overdress. Turning up in morning tails to a backyard wedding = no.
6. Final Tip: Enjoy the Day
The best-dressed guests aren’t the ones in the fanciest suits — they’re the ones who look comfortable, confident, and appropriate for the moment. Pick an outfit that feels like you, fits the dress code, and lets you relax, enjoy the food, have a laugh, and maybe even hit the dance floor without worrying about your collar popping off.
Weddings are about celebrating love — your outfit is just the supporting act.