How to Wear Lapel Pins

A lapel flower adds personality and polish to your suit—ideal for weddings, formals, and any moment you want to stand out without overdoing it.

Where It Goes

Always place your lapel flower on the left lapel, pushed through the small buttonhole (the boutonnière). If your suit doesn’t have one, use the pin backing and secure it neatly from behind the lapel.

Choosing the Right Style

• Formal events: Go for classic, subtle colours like white, cream, navy, or soft pastels.
• Bold looks: Textured or vibrant blooms make a statement without being too loud. 
• Match smart: Coordinate with your tie, pocket square, or overall colour palette—avoid going too matchy-matchy.

Tips for a Sharp Finish

• Keep the flower sitting upright and proportionate to your lapel.
• If wearing a boutonnière for a wedding, skip the pocket square or keep it minimal.
• Let the flower be the hero—no need to over-accessorise.

Quick Don’ts

• Don’t pin it on the right lapel.
• Don’t choose oversized flowers that overpower your outfit.
• Don’t match every accessory exactly—aim for harmony, not duplication.